we love this series of posts on cup of jo – full of great advice.
a few favorites:
“love your other how they need to be loved, not how you need to be.” -anna bond, rifle design
“find small ways to lighten the other’s load.” -anne sage, the city sage
“take a mini-moon. frequently.” -brooke reynolds, inchmark
“pancakes for breakfast are the secret to a happy marriage.” -cara, peonies and polaroids
“take adventures! no matter how big or small your adventure, you’ll plan together, be spontaneous together, and create wonderful memories from the ups and downs.” -ellie, mint
“never go to bed without each other (unless we are away, of course). no sleeping-on-the-couch business either. we leave love notes to each other often. i hide them near his keys, and he puts them on the kitchen table. we dance in front of the children. and we pray together daily.” -stephanie nielson (“nie nie”), nie nie dialogues